I read some news of Kris Dayanti's anak luar nikah and Sila Sahin, the first Islamic Turki girl to do a naked photoshoot from Dextrike's blog. Of course it's a shock when Kris Dayanti quoted something like;
"We are grown ups, the kid is a blessing (anugerah) and we received this pregnancy news with a full responsibility"
You are an icon (icon here is meant to someone known by a lot of people in this whole world), they know your religion and now they know about your bad doings. You don't have to stick your feet into the ground everytime and give a statement to make you look better and not some wimpy person who just being caught red-handed.
For some occasion like this, there's no wrong to say "I've did a bad thing and I felt regret about it. I just hope I would be forgiven by HIM". For me, this is a word of "responsibility" to compare with your own statement. But I still sangka baik ye Kris. I just hope it was the media that manipulated your statement. Media sometimes didn't really think deeply on how the consequences of the amended statement as long as it has the BOOM effect. Well, may Allah forgive you Kris Dayanti.
And for Sila Sahin, she quoted :
"I naked for Playboy coz I want to be free!! These pictures of mine is to prove my freedom from all the strict rules that I had to follow since I was a kid. I also want to shout out loud to other Muslim girls out there to find your own freedom, not being forced to do things you don't like, being controlled including on your choice of husband"
She talked more about how proud she is to be free but this piece said it enough.
Now, I wanna share my 2 cents. I'm not someone that can talk about religion, what good and bad. But me as a minute combination of cells created by the god do have a simple way to understand the life.
1. If you have done something wrong, it's OK to admit especially when so many people has already knew about it. Being a great person is not just having to achieve all those glories, but to admit when they make a mistake. It makes you a better person. It's very simple. We say sorry in so many unnecessary occasions, why can't we say sorry when that's the only thing we have to say?
2. Freedom? How do you define a freedom? Every religion urges for a good life. Every one of them no matter Buddhism, Christian or Islam. Why, when we embrace a religion, we only want it to be the best favor to us and despise the things that you yourself think a hindrance or a heavy burden?
Couldn't you just say "this is my choice being photographed naked. My life and I can do whatever I like with it". Isn't that catchy enough to portray how free you are? It should be enough right? Why do you feel so boasted and high of yourself when you do bad things? If you wanna do it, when you know it's wrong (yes, don't lie to yourself. We always know it deep down inside us) just keep silent about it.
Yes..you can ask a little girl about getting naked in front of someone else, and you would know the answer straight into your face. This kind of thing, you don't even need to get religion dragged into it. Even the Christian doesn't allow. Oh, any Christian out there dare to say it's permitted for such vulgar act?? No right??
So if you idiot bimbo retard woman wanna do something that is so free~~~~ just say that you do it coz you want to. Dont drag religion into it ok thickhead???