It has been a year!!!! Yep. I've been a husband with a flat tummy for now. And trying my best to give my love to my dearest Nyai, Cembam. I'm juggling my priorities, my hobbies and my time among my wife, my tennis, my PC and lots more..ekekeke. And so far I think I did good. Do I Cembam??
I've already planned to spend our 14th March together and requested for a leave weeks earlier. We wanted to go to a high altitude place, cold one as around the time we thought of the plan, it was scorching hot even my colleague's newly bought racket bent and snapped when it was left only around 3 hours in his car. Yep..that hot!! That's why we chose Fraser Hills. Simply because we hv already went to Cameron for our honeymoon and Genting's hotel was fully booked from Sat to Tuesday.
The night before we headed to Fraser, I slept at 1A.M after my usual online game with my colleague and some other virtual players that I don't even know. We play DOTA every night. Hehehe =]. Yah, and Cembam is cool with that.
That morning I was trying to getup after hearing Cembam waking me up for Subuh but as soon as Cembam showed me one small white thing to me, my eyes were afresh!! It was the pregnancy kit. And unlike the first time we tried using it, this time that 2 lines are so obvious.
Rightaway I said 'congrats' to Cembam but we still don't wanna believe it 100% because we need it to be official. When we've already arrived around our home, we were searching for the clinics. After we tried 2 of them, both their doctors were not there. We were told to come again around 6.15-6.30 P.M. So we searched around the area for another clinic, stopped by the Pakar Wanita An-Nur it's already closed.
So in the end, I decided to go to the first clinic and will wait there if the nurse has not come. But luckily, just when we arrived, the doctor was walking out from his car (it was the only big car in front of the clinic and yes our guess was correct, she was the doctor). I melepas first in their toilet before entering the room.
Actually I wanted to pull off some joke saying something like;
"boleh jumpa doktor? Kami dah terlanjur ni, nak cek pregnant ke tak girlfriend saya ni"
Ekekeke. Tapi I afraid I might get a jab with a huge needle, so I chickened out. Ahhahaha. The doc was asking Cembam's last period, but I was the one answered her (nampak sangat prihatin kan?). Then the doc asked Cembam if she had drink a lot, if her bladder was full. We asked "oh, check air kencing ye doc?".
Aahahahahaha!!! Rupanya the doc was going to do the ultrasonic scan. Oh..Mana tau. Pes time. Ngan awek lama tak sampai ngandung pun. Ahahahahaha!!! I thought the scan will be done for later months? But Cembam was lying on the bed with the doc moving something on her belly trying to see beneath that fat stomach. AHahaha!! And there it was a small kecik tuet thing that I circled up there. The 'kantung' has already developed and from the system it says 7 weeks.
Yep, when I was feeling something weird these past few weeks plus knowing Cembam's already late (period), I got the feeling that there was something inside her. If not a baby, then cacing yang banyak. Ahahahaa!! I kept on rubbing her belly when I was home asking "baby, watpe tu?" and Cembam will giggled and said "ntah pape..takde pa la". The first one Cembam had a late period, it was just a false alarm, so we didn't dare to think of it will going to happen. But I got this feeling you know. And it is true~~~
Yep..I am happy. But not too happy because 9 months is a long way to go. Anything could happen. Now I'm worried coz Cembam is going back to hometown with her sis. I'm not gonna follow. There's work at the office that needs my attention. I asked the doctor and she said it should be OK to travel, but just be careful.
Haisshh...macam tak percaya~~~~~. Alhamdulillah so far in my live, most of the things I planned worked!! I planned not to have a baby during our separated-live, there was the false alarm and when we have already under the same roof, just last month I started to think a bit serious to have a baby by seeing my nephew. And Allah granted that to me. Alhamdulillah~~~
So there goes my 1st Anniv with the 'News' as the present.