From left, Osman (Kak Wa's husband), the adorable me and Fikri (Nurul, my younger sister's husband)
It's been 1 month, 4 weeks and 1 day since I sealed the vow after the 2nd attempt. Since I said bye bye to my carefree bachelor life and since I started to accept the fact that I'm a husband and cute married guy. Ngahahaha!! And I'm currently liking the days I spent with my wife (of course) and my in-laws. My in-laws and my family is entirely 2 different things to be compared.
My Sister and Osman
My sis has already requested the 1-year unpaid leave and migrated with her husband in Brisbane, Australia. So far, she said that she's happy, her mother in-law took a good care of her when she was sick, her sister in-law also could get along well with her. We always pray for the best of her health and her happiness. Kak Wa can easily get sick due to fatigue of her daily works.
She was so happy when she knew that she's pregnant. She did the pregnancy test using the pregnancy kit and got a positive result. She was sooo happy before the next day right after I knew about the news, she was bleeding. At that time, she was so terrified. She called Mom and mom just said something to make her strong. And she was in her quite mode when I sent her an FB message asking for the latest news.
Her first miscarriage. Kak Wa was sooo sad and we could only say something and just shut our mouth to show her that we care..May Allah has a better plan for her.
My Younger sister and Fikri
My younger sister was also giving me the same happy news of her pregnancy a minute after I knew about Kak Wa's. But it didn't end like Kak Wa's. My sis is now under the most careful care of her loving husband. It's a great and enormous relief to see your sister is being taken care of with the best effort by her husband.
No more heavy work even washing the dishes. You can only listen to the nasyid song while in her car as her husband would only tune in to IKIM FM. Good for the child he said. No more bowling!! They used to play everyday. They even have their own bowling ball and shoes coz they really love the sport. But not for another year. Hehehe. Actually, it's just the first month of her pregnancy though. Hehehe.
Us
Us?? Ahahahaha..the effort to get the first pregnancy would only commence once we are living in the same roof. Ekekekeke. I know some would say don't plan for your first one coz you might not gonna get it when you really want it later. For me, it's all in Allah's hand. If HE said we gonna get one during our first year of marriage, then no one could stop that. If not, just wait and try...=].
Think it this way to those married couple but yet to get your first baby. Allah might not giving it to you guys now maybe because your marriage would be ruined when you get one now. Maybe you are not ready yet even you do think you are ready. Allah has His own reason. Just enjoy your partner's sexy figure before it changed to some tears dripping form yah...eheheehehe!!!
I admit that my mom was asking when she got the double pregnancy news. But she knew me well and she agreed with the way I think.
Comments
nanti ade la tu rejeki utk korang, Allah lebih tau bila masa yg seswai utk korang jadi parents.
fuh seriusnye komen aku. senyum sket (^_^)v
mungkin de hikmahnya korg x ngandung serentak..tak pening pale mak ko nak jage yg mane time dlm pantang nanti..hehe..
ya yahh..just enjoy ur partner's sexy figure..tapi org kate wanita ngandung lagi sexayyyy tau ;p
Erina: mengandung lg sexy??aku tgok awek yg boroi cam ngandung tak seksi pun..ahahaha
smuanya ditangan Dia...
Dia yg bg rezeki tu...
Dia tau bila n ms yg sesuai...
congrats utk adik ko ye...
syoknyer dh ngandung...hu3...
anyway best of luck to all of us who want babies! ^_^