It's already Thursday - The short or I could say, a bit longer than the usual 2-day weekend would start tomorrow. My leave on Monday has been approved by my Team Leader. Upon my back on Tuesday, it's my Team Lead's turn for holiday. He will take from Tuesday until the next week's Monday.
Ok, fair enough. I will carry forward my 2009 leaves of 8 days. We are only allowed to bring 5 to the next year, but in a special circumstances such as Project restriction, you are approved to bring more. I will use these leaves for my wedding day of course. Hope your holiday would be a blast!!!
For the past few weeks, I've been bloghopping here and there, dropping comments whenever I think I want to say something about the entries that have been posted, pouring my thoughts and how I look at the issue on my self-righteous-act concept. And one of the popular one is something like this;
"Laki ni takleh percaya. Sume yang aku jumpa...hipokrit, lidah berbelit"
"Pompuan mata duitan, takleh percaya..bangsat!!"
Well, something like these. I know some would agree and some would not. Why? Because this is purely subjects to one's own experience. Some would always being around people whom can be trusted. Friends that so loving, guys or girls that you could easily know that he or she is a nice person and what a wonderful thing to be his/her companion or loved one. And some?? would be the other way around.
NOw, I know you would have also heard these wisdoms;
"Lelaki yg baik adalah utk perempuan yg baik"
"berkawan dengan penjual minyak wangi dpt bau wangi, berkwan dengan tukang besi hitam panas dn kotor lah"
Ok, so..for the first wisdom..if you keep on being rejected in your love life..always ended up with a relationship that is not built by love, caring, trust and honesty, I think it's time to look in the mirror and muhasabah your own life, your ownself. It might be because you are not quite a nice girl or guy to begin with?? This is only my theory...
Or come to the 2nd wisdom, maybe all this while, the way you pick your friend, the way you mingle, live your social life is not quite the right way?? Have you ever think of that?? For example, you might say, "kawan aku..laki yg aku jumpa sume takleh pakai..dh la tak semayang..sex tiap malam tukar2 pompuan..camne aku nk caya laki".
Isn't that obvious? Is it because the guy himself or because of you? What kind of people do you involve with everyday? If you want to find kindness you would find it in a place, in a people that have one wouldn't you?
The easiest metaphore is, "If you are in a bicycle store, would you see a nice gown with beautiful laces and nice ribbons embedded on it?".
It's time to think again, start blaming yourself than just pointing fingers saying guys or girls could not be trusted. Coz, so far my own experience, people I've met, they all are such a wonderful friends and nice people.